我最喜欢的郭德纲相声

最近看了几段郭德纲相声。
他相声的是以取乐为目的,没有任何政治上的需要,把相声的通俗性发展得淋漓尽致。最重要的是不把自己当大腕,不把自己的活儿当阳春白雪买。

到现在为止,最喜欢的是文章会 。分三部分:

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3/3

你最喜欢的相声是什么呢?

My iPod

I have an iPod (generation 3 20 gb version). I won it while attending one of the conferences.

Since I was an engineer, I value function over fashion much more. That’s why I never really liked the iPod. Most of things I listen to are audiobooks, and if I don’t buy the audiobooks from the iTune or Audible.com, I’m left with MP3 files that are not bookmarked.

I have two other small flash based players, one from iRiver and one from SanDisk. They both work well, showing up as USB mass storage devices when connected to my computer. However, the SanDisk requires a music management software to put the MP3 to remove mp3 files, which is a bit of pain.

I’ve recently discovered a great use of the iPod though, to download PodCast from the iTune store.

A lot of the podcasts used to be fee-based. I had a friend telling me he pays Audible.com to download all the WallStreet Journal news on a dailly basis to his portable mp3 palyer.

Well, if you look at the iTune store now, there are tens of thousands of free podcasts now. I initially brought out the iPod so I can listen to Jack and Susie Welch’s Business Weeks podcast. When I went to iTune store though, I found so much more free podcast, I now subscribe to at least 15 of them.

My favorite one so far is still The Welch Way. My second favorite is actually David Linthicum’s podcast on Service Oriented Archiecture. I really enjoy listening to his insights. A lot of people thinks he’s kind of high-level, but as an enterprise architect, he’s speaking to me at exactly the right level.

So enjoy all the great content from thought leaders of today, and hope you learn much from what you hear.

Until next time.

品尝巧克力

最近和JY品尝了一些Michel Cluizel的巧克力。

Michel Cluizel是非常有名的法国巧克力生产商。 他们的Single Cru巧克力在世界上是数一数二的。

下面是我和JY的印象。

Los Ancones:
一开始感觉味道不浓,可是含在嘴里时间长了,味道就出来了,主要是Dark Chocolate,而且越来越浓。-JY
开始时有一种形容不出的感觉,然后又有种烟草味道。然后就是甜的水果味道。非常易溶,回味悠长,有点意犹未尽的感觉。 -LW

Marilumi:
一开始味道就非常浓。无层次感,没有上次的好吃。 -JY
开始是淡淡的。后来越来越酸,又非常强的莓的味道。回味没有上次的长。 -LW

Tamarina:
一开始味道很淡,然后慢慢开始变浓,象渗透开来一样,先是清香味,再是浓烈的黑巧克力味(清香味此时还在),我觉得是到现在最好吃的。-JY
闻起来有很强的巧克力味道,有点酸酸的。吃下去开始好几秒钟以内没有什么味道。慢慢的有青草的香味,到最后有一点酸,回味没有Los Ancones长,清香味道。-LW

Concepcion
入口就有清香味道,而且不散。后来巧克力味道越来越浓的时候清香味还是有的。-JY
问起来有浓浓的巧克力味道,不过没有象Tamarina的酸味。吃起来开始淡淡的,然后有水果的酸味,巧克力味道非常柔和。到最后有一点酸味,回味有一点苦。-LW

Mangaro Noir
和其他几种比起来,这种巧克力刚入口时没什么味道,而且味道一直很淡,可是后来突然爆发出来,很浓烈。我没有觉得很甜。-JY
闻起来有股清香的味道。味道很快变浓。有非常重的水果酸味,越到后来越甜,结束时酸甜味道为主。回味时有巧克力味道。-LW

我和JY的口味有些不同,她比较喜欢甜一点的,我比较喜欢酸一点的。

你们如果有兴趣可以在网上买到Michel Cluizel的巧克力。

My house is on the market

Hi. Just in case you are looking for an affordable house in the San Francisco Bay Area.

My house has 4 bedrooms, 2 1/2 baths, 1,544 sq ft, built in 1999 with view of the bay right outside the door.

You can read more about it Here.

Here is the MLS Listing

If you or anyone you know would like to see the house, please contact my agent, Jennifer Chen at (925) 242-8970. She’ll be hosting open houses on Sundays 1 – 4 pm.

Please forward this information to your friends for whom you know is on the market for housing.

Thanks.

Toastmaster speech #3 – “The Pursuit of Happiness”

“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness.”

When I first read these words, I was both inspired and a bit confused. Does the government actual guarantees my happiness, how could they do that?

I only come to understand the meaning of the phrase “pursuit of happiness” recently. If you think about it, it actually implies that happiness can be obtained through effort. By the end of the speech, you will learn ways to become a happier person.

There is a new branch of psychology called “positive psychology”. Traditionally, psychology focused on correcting negative emotions and behaviors. Positive psychology instead focuses on how to build human strengths and happiness. It started in 1998 after Martin Seligman’s became the president of American Psychological Association, and it’s the fastest growing field in psychology today.

Let’s go over some findings from positive psychology and see how we can leverage them to make ourselves happier.

At genetic level, we humans are born with a happiness range, and our goal is to keep ourselves at the upper limit of the range as much as possible.

At the biological level, the brain chemicals related to the feeling of happiness are serotonin and dopamine. They are produced by the brain, are similar to ecstasy and opium in effect, and generate a sense of euphoria and peacefulness respectively.

Three recent findings in positive psychology are of interest. One is that the biggest factor affecting happiness is the quality of your relationship with your friends and family members. Another is that we can only have one feeling at a time. The third is that our body affects feelings.

First, biggest factor affecting happiness is the quality of your relationship with your friends and family members.

– So invest time and energy in friends and family – Right after my daughter’s birth, I was so busy taking care of her, I got really stressed out. I found that talking to my friends on the phone even briefly really helps me to take my minds away, and I felt much better after every conversation. If what you are doing is affecting you negatively, then stop doing it, and start engaging in meaningful social activities with others.

Second, that we can only maintain one feeling at a time. That means we need to maximize the time we spent experiencing positive feelings to leave no place for negative feelings in our minds. Positive feelings include gratitude, kindness, joy, sympathy and many others.

– So count your blessings and be grateful. I have recently started a journal where my wife and I keep track of things we are grateful for, and thank God for all the blessings every night. It really helped us to see how lucky we are. Also thank people who helped you along the way. Make sure to be specific and thank them face to face if at all possible. It helps you to gain a deeper connection those special people in your life.

– Practice act of kindness. These can either be random or systematic. Being kind triggers many mechanisms, it makes you feel generous and capable, give a great sense connection with others, and wins you smiles, approval and recipricol kindness in return.

– Savor life’s joys – life offers many joyous moments such as your graduation, the birth of your children. Mentally capture them and relish in them during less happy times. Einstein says “A happy man is too satisfied with the present to dwell too much on the future”.

– Learn to forgive – let go of anger and resentment by writing a letter to a person who has hurt or wronged you. Again, the mind can not be happy when revenge and hurt occupies it all the time.

The last finding which is quite contrary to common sense is that our bodies affect our felings.
– So develop strategy for coping with stress and hardships – I found praying lift my burdens and I’m left with a sense of inner peace. A simply thing you can do during times of stress or when experiencing negative emotions is do force yourself to smile by putting your facial muscle to use. Keep your smiling face for more than 30 seconds, and I guarantee you’ll feel better.

– Take care of your body – I use to have a really sedentary lifestyle, weighing 180 pounds, and not taking care of my body. I later found jogging really helps me to release stress. It puts my mind and body at east to prepare for the next set of stress. Getting enough sleep is also important.

Happiness is not shallow, when we are happy, we positively affect others around us. Not only should we strive to be happy, but also encourage other to be happy as well.

To summarize, happiness is achievable through your own actions. Strive to live a life of meaning and purpose, fill your heart with gratefulness and joy, practice acts of kindness, spent time to connect to others, and practice your smiles. Take the steps to heart, make them into habits, and you’ll live a happier life.

Now let me see that wonderful smile on your faces.

Selling my house

I’m in the process of selling my house now.

I’ve lived here since I got to California, for about 7 years. It was a brand-new house, and it still looks and feels pretty new.

I’m moving to an area that is closer to work, with better schools and safer neighborhood. I haven’t decided which exact areas to live in yet, and I’m currently considering Pleasanton, Dublin or San Ramon. They are all great places, and once my house is on the market, I’ll start looking for another one to buy.

I already have a great agent, but if you have any goood leads, please let me know.

Thanks.

Toastmasters speech #2: Improve your digital photographs

Today, I’m going to show you some quick and easy ways to improve the quality of your digital photographs.

Let’s see if this will be a good topic. By the show of hands, how many of you have digital cameras? How many of you use the digital cameras on a regular basis? How many of you would like to improve the quality of your digital photos?

I see. Well, I think I can help.

Let’s get right to it. I like my digital camera because I can see the photos right after I take it and retake the photo if I’m not satisfied with it. I don’t need to waste good money printing out not-so-good photos. I don’t need for wait for the photos to be developed, because I can print them out right at home, on my home ink-jet printer.

I was going through couple of film rolls a week before digital cameras became popular and affordable. I was a pretty good photographer by that time already, and I was actually thinking of opening a side photo business doing events. I can tell you, my first experience with my digital photography was not very encouraging. Most times the photos came out looking dull, sometimes with a color tint such as green or blue. Some of them looked OK on my monitor but looked horrible when I printed them out on my ink-jet printer.

So I decided that digital photography was not for me, and went back to film cameras for awhile.

Then Three years ago, I attended an one-day workshop by a professional photographer on digital work-flow which really opened my eyes.

The term digital work flow refers to the multiple steps in digital photo-taking, and the secret to improving your digital photos is by understanding and following the digital work flow steps.

A simplified version of a digital work flow has four parts: setting the camera, take and review the photo, digital darkroom, and printing.

The first step is to set the camera. Unlike a traditional camera, a digital camera takes a bit more time to set up. First you will decide what mode to use, do you want full automatic? aperture priority? shutter priority? or full manual mode? Then the resolution, how big should the photos be? Then the image capture mode, raw or JPEG? They all have an impact on the resulting photo, but are not as important as setting the white balance.

White balance is a new concept only applicable to digital photography. You adjust for white-balance to account for the color temperature of the lights falling on your subject. Your eyes are very good at telling what white is in most situations, but your camera is not. It relies on you to make that judgment. Most people know about the white-balance setting on their cameras, but don’t know what it’s used for, and therefore automatically leave it on auto white-balance which means the camera will do its best to determine the color temperature of ambient light. However, digital cameras are not good at determine the proper white balance in many situations. Most digicams also have settings for sunny, cloudy, florescent and incandescent lights. Use these when appropriate. The best approach to white balance though, is to use a piece of white paper and calibrate your camera for manual white-balance like so.

Now that you’ve setup the camera, you are ready to take some photos. I will not cover photo taking techniques in this speech, and will elaborate on them in a later one. The biggest advantage of digital over traditional photography is the ability to review the photo right after you take it. You can decide whether to keep or retake it. Most people look at the image on the LCD screen, and it they like what they see they keep it. This approach works in most situations. A better approach is to evaluate a photo based on a histogram. The histogram is a simple graph that displays where all of the brightness levels contained in the scene are found, from the darkest to the brightest. These values are arrayed across the bottom of the graph from left (darkest) to right (brightest). The vertical axis shows how much pixels are found at any particular brightness level.

The histogram should accurately reflect the dynamic range of the photo. In most situations, a histogram should stretch out in the full brightness spectrum. A lopsided histogram either means the photo is underexposed if the pixels are all on the left-hand side, or overexposed if they are all on the right-hand side. Use exposure compensation to deal with under and over exposure issues. Look it up in your camera’s manual on how to do exposure compensation.

After a day of great photo-taking, now you can go home and relax right? Well, not quite. There is a reason digital photography saves you money, it’s because you as the photographer will also work in the digital darkroom instead of some clerk from a photo lab. The digital darkroom is where you make fine adjustment to your photos to make them ready for sharing and printing.

There are quite a few things you can do in your digital darkroom such as correcting color cast if the white balance was not set correctly, adjusting levels, cropping, and special effects. The two that gives you the most bang for the buck are adjusting levels and cropping. Some photo editing programs, such as photoshop element, can automatically adjust levels. This means the program will stretch the brightness range of your photo to fill the whole spectrum. It results in a contrasting and detailed photo. Cropping is important in a lot of situations. For instance, you may want to crop out bystanders and focus the photo’s attention on the real subject, you may also crop the photo so that it fits in the ratio that you want to print the photo in (4×6 or 8×11).

The last step is actually printing the photos. In order to print, you will need to calibrate your monitor and printer to match their color profiles. This will enable you to print photos that match the one shown on the monitor. The process is not simple and takes time. I suggest you look at the Adobe Gamma control panel to calibrate your monitor and import the color profile of your printer into your photo editing program to preview it. By the way, you can find color profiles of many photo printing services on the internet. For instance, you can download color profiles of your local Costco’s printers.

To summarize, there are a few things that you can do to improve your digital photography. First is to understand the digital work-flow and tasks involved. Then make sure that you pre-set the white-balance on your digicam, use histogram to distinguish well exposed photos from the duds, use auto levels to stretch out the brightness range of your photo, and calibrated your monitor and printers for WYSIWYG printing.

Life is full precious moments, and make sure you preserve them well with your digital photos.

Moving sale part 1

I’m actually in the process of selling my house right now. That explains why I haven’t written any long post for couple of weeks.

We found a great agent who’s helping us preparing our house for sale. It will go on the market by mid of February. It’s a very hectic time for us because getting rid junk from 7 years of living is not easy.

I’m still in the process of cleaning things out.

In the mean time, I have quite a few steeply discounted items for sale for those who are interested.

Tilia Food Saver 420 White or Black New – $30
Apex 703 DVD Player / Karaoke – $80
Custom-built Armoir – solid oak – $700

I also couple of 17″ CRT monitors for $10 each.

If you want any of these items, email me at luwang20 at gmail.com. (replace the word “at” with @)

I’ll have more stuff for sale in very soon.

Toastmasters speech #1: the Ice Breaker

This is my first Toastmasters speech. It’s intended to introduce myself to my fellow toastmasters, and get my feet wet.

The title of my speech is: “And the best is yet to come”.

You probably recognized the title of my speech from the famous Sinatra song.
“Out of the tree of life I just picked me a plum. You came along and everything’s startin’ to hum. Still, it’s a real good bet, the best is yet to come” It fits me perfectly.

As you all know, this is my very first Toastmaster speech, and I’m quite nervous. I’m humbled by all the great speeches I heard while attending the < >, they were delivered with such confidence and eloquence. I can’t help but ask myself when I can do the same. As Nalla pointed out in his outstanding speech last week though, it’s not those great speakers that we need to measure ourselves against, but our former selves. I decided to start doing my speeches because it’s the only way for me to learn, and I’m as eager to learn from all of you.

Since this is the ice breaker speech, let’s go ahead and break the ice. My name is Lu Wang, and I joined < > as an Enterprise Architect about four months ago. Of course, many things happened in my life before I joined < >. Some were of greater significance than others. I’d like to share with you three significant changes that affected me greatly.

I was born in Beijing China. At the age of 16, I came to the US to join my parents in Philadelphia. This was the first significant change in my life. I was living without parental supervision in China for couple of years, then suddenly I came to America, where people spoke a different language, have different customs, and are mostly from different racial background.
I remember being depressed for the first year because I had a hard time communicating with others in English, and I missed all my friends back in China.

My savior came in the form of an ESL teacher. Her name was Dr. Teddy. Being an ESL teacher, she dealt with a lot of kids whose first languages were not English. She was very encouraging and very attentive to her students’ needs, which was a great contrast to the teachers I had in China. Through her classes, I learned not only the English language itself, but also to respect people’s differences, to value others’ ideas, even though they differed from my own, and to make choices and to take responsibilities for those choices.

There was one time, while in class, I was shaking my legs vigorously without knowing it, I think the medical term is dyskinesia because I was so nervous. A girl who sat next to me asked me loudly why I was doing that. I was too embarrassed to respond. Dr. Teddy saw the situation, and intervened. She first asked me whether I was feeling alright. I told her yes. She then asked me if I knew why I was doing that. It just happened that I was taking a psychology class as well, and they actually covered anxiety just days ago. I told her that I was probably feeling anxious, and I tried to practice the relaxation techniques I learned in the psychology class. Dr. Teddy encouraged me to share the relaxation techniques with the whole class, which I gladly did. After that I never experience dyskinesia again.

Looking back, I thought she must have known the reason all along, and could have explain it better than I did. However, she was trying to encourage me to share my learning with others, and thus making the information exchange much more useful for all of us. I slowed gained confidence in my choices, and gained appreciation of the freedom and choices we have in this great country.

The second change that impacted my life greatly was my weight loss program. At around 2003, due to the stress at work as well as my lack of exercise, my weight ballooned to 170 pounds. I was carrying all these extra pounds, and it was taking a terrible toll on my health. When I got the result of my annual checkup back, I was shocked to discover that my blood cholesterol level was sky high, as well as my blood pressure. My doctor at the time, Dr. C, told me if I don’t get my cholesterol and blood pressure under control, I was at a real danger of suffering a stroke or a heart-attack. I was barely in my 30s, and the news was a shock to me. I also just started dating my wife and things were going very well. So I made up my mind to improve my health. I talked to Dr. C extensively on what I should do to improve my health. He provided medical advice, hooked me up with nutritionist and exercise specialist to access my needs. I also did quite a lot of research, and discovered tons of good information on proper nutrition and all the diets on the market. I implemented a rigorous exercise program that forces me to run at least 5 days out of every week.

The result was dramatic, I’ve lost more than 30 pounds, and am keeping the pounds off. My blood pressure and LDL level are well within the healthy range, and I feel great and more energetic. Dr. C played a crucial role in helping me lose the weight and keeping it off by offering advice and encouragement. I will share my weight-loss experience in more detail in a later speech. This change really helped me to realize that if I set my mind to it, and change good actions into habits, I can accomplish great things.

My latest life-changing experience was the birth of my first child, my daughter Lauren. She was born in January 2006, and she’s just had her one year birthday.

My wife and I planned for her arrival for quite some time. We attended all the requisite classes, read quite a few books on parenting. I thought we were well-prepared, and boy was I wrong. Earlier one morning, closing to my wife’s expected delivery date, she woke up and cried out for me, and proceed to tell me that her water broke, and she thought the baby stopped moving. This was a terrifying moment for me because I didn’t have any prior experience to draw on to reassure her, or myself that the baby is OK. I put on some cloth, and rushed my wife to the hospital. On the way to the hospital, my whole body was shaking so violently, I had a hard time steering. Once we reached the hospital, I actually hit a security truck behind me. Thankfully, I was able to sort it out with the hospital security staff, but my priority was to get my wife to the maternity ward. It took what seemed like an eternity to get her to the proper location, hooked her up to the instruments, and with great relief, I learned the baby was still breathing just fine. I then spent the next five hours staying with my wife through the whole delivery and C-section. After the baby came out, and I looked at baby, I was amazed at how much hair she had, and how she looked so vulnerable. At that moment, I also realized that I can no longer focus on myself, because now I’m in charge of my baby’s life, and it’s one of the greatest responsibility I’ve ever had.

My mother and father in-law actually came over from China to help us care for the baby during the first nine months. I was very graceful for their help because being a first-time parents, I had tons of things to learn, and my parents in law, especially my mother-in-law, was very experienced in childcare, she took the burden of inexperience off me, and provided Lauren with the care she needed.

Recently research has shown, people with kids generally die younger than those without because of the amount of stress kids brings to their parents. I’ve also read Daniel Gilbert’s book – “Stumbling On Happiness” where he said that, and I quote “The only known symptom of the empty-nest syndrome is increased smiling. Careful studies of how women feel as they go about their daily activities show that they are less happy when taking care of their children than when eating, exercising, shopping, napping, or watching television.”

I’m a student of psychology, and read through the researches and found their methods were solid. However, at an emotional level I just couldn’t agree with that I’ll be happier without kids.

One day not long ago, when Lauren was about 8 months old, she was playing in her playpen. I just came home from work. The moment I opened the door, Lauren saw me, she opened up her arm like this, and excited cooed “Arh, arh”, as if she’s wait for a big hug. This was one of many precious moments that makes all the hard work of raising kids worth it for me.

From the day of Lauren’s birth, I’ve became a more responsible person, and now my work and life has a new meaning. I also appreciated my wife much more because what she went through during the child-birth process, and her love and devotion to Lauren.

Now, I stand in front of you, and am facing some new challenges – of improving my public speaking and communication skills in general. It’s a vital skill that will help me both professionally and in my family life.

What I ask of you then, is to help me along the way, by providing your honest and timely feedback, by sharing your pass experiences. To help me to achieve my goal of becoming a great communicator.

So, as you’ve heard, I’ve had a few life-changing experiences, and they were overwhelmingly positive because of the help I got from these wonderful individuals. Looking ahead, I envision an even brighter future. Toastmasters so far has been a great experience for me, and with your help, I can say with certainty, that the best is yet to come.