My China trip with Lauren Part 2

Since I’m traveling to China with Lauren alone, I needed to repack my suitcases because now I can only bring two big ones instead of four. It proved to be a big challenge. As a result, quite a few of Lauren’s toys didn’t make it to China. The suitcases were filled with diapers, wet wipes, canned baby food, baby medicine and toys. It was a struggle to keep each suitcase below the 50 pounds limit.

On the day of the trip, which was really just the next day, a friend with a van came over to drive me to the airport. I was actually unsure about the whole thing, and the thought of cancelling the trip came through my mind couple of times.

After praying about it, I decided to take on the challenge of bringing Lauren to China myself.

The flight was at 2:45pm, and we left my house at 10:45am. I strapped Lauren securely into her car-seat. She seemed to be happy, actually, she’s happy whenever she’s out of the house. I then loaded the two big suitcases, a small carry on, her diaper bag, and her stroller onto the van.

BTW, I just want to mention the stroller. I bought it specifically for this trip, and intend to leave it with her in China. The model I bought was the
The drive to the airport was uneventful. Cosmo Ex Merlot Stroller, which turned out to be a great stroller to use in the airport and for general day to day usage. It’s basically an upscale umbrella stroller but with some very nice features. For more detail, read my Amazon review on it by following the link above.

But I digress.

The trip to the airport was uneventful, traffic was light, and the mood was good in general. Lauren shouted quite a few times, she’s very vocal nowadays, trying to prepare for her language development I assume. Our friend, who drove the van, got startled when he first heard her shouting, it was kind of funny.

Check-in was pretty easy, although there were quite a few folks in line already, JY and my mom brought Lauren to a seating area to feed her and change her while I waited in-line. It took me around 30 minutes to check-in.

I asked about the bassinet that I ordered for Lauren at the check-in counter, and was told that I should have ordered the hanging one because it’s much bigger. My problem was that when I first ordered the bassinet, I was put into non-bulkhead seat, so the bassinet I ordered was the floor model. On the 747-400 I was traveling on, only two bulkhead rolls can have hanging bassinet, and although I changed myself to a bulkhead row couple of weeks ago, I didn’t change to the bulkhead rows that have that feature. The problem was, I was never told about this before I arrived at the airport. I actually called United a few times to change things, and every time I was told I’ll get a bassinet for Lauren, but the difference between the bassinet was not explained to me.

This has just made my trip much more difficult, because the floor bassinet can only hold a baby up to 6-months. Well, I was at the airport, and there was no turning back.

To be continued.

My China trip with Lauren Part 1

JY and I decided to send Lauren to China to live with her maternal grandparents for awhile.

It was not an easy decision to make, as you can well imagine.

I’ve grown used to waking up to her cries, seeing her in the morning, and her big smiles when I get home.

JY and I have quite a few things to do before we bring Lauren back. We need to sell our current house, buy a new house in a neighborhood with better schools, maybe for JY to work closer to where I work, and prepare for Lauren #2.

We could’ve done all these while Lauren’s still here, but it would be much harder. Plus, her grandparents adore her, and they were the ones suggested that they take care of her while we get our house in order.

We originally planned for JY and I to bring Lauren back to Shanghai together. However, JY developed a severe case of stomach flu the day before our scheduled departure, and she had to stay home to get some blood work done.

So I took on the responsibility of bringing Lauren to China myself.

To Be Continued.

Got a new cellphone

I’ve been having problems lately with my trusted LG VX6000 from Verizon. It’s a great phone, the camera is a bit limited (no flash, VGA only), although I really enjoy using it.

Lately though, the battery charger has been acting up, the red light keeps on flashing and won’t keep a charge. I needed to periodically took out the battery and replace it in order to get the charger to work with it again.

I finally decided to get a new phone, and found out from Verizon that I have a new-every-two discount credit that I can use toward a new cellphone.

I went shopping. There were quite a few new phones on the market, the ones I had my eyes on were the LG VX8300, the LG VX8500 (Chocolate), and the Motorola KRZR K1m.

I checked my favorite source for Cell Phones, Howard Forums. It seemed that the chocolate was too prune to scratches, and I don’t really need a mp3 phone since I already have couple of mp3 players that suit me just fine.

If I were to select my next cellphone by looks, I probably would have gone with the KRZR, which looked very elegant. However, it’s about $150 more than the cost of the VX8300, and it’s faceplate is a magnet for finger prints. There were also some concerns regarding its reception.

I finally settled on the VX8300. So far, it’s been a great phone, battery life is good, reception is much better than my VX6000. I’m still waiting for my Plantronics Voyager 510 Bluetooth Headset with Multipoint Technology (one of THE best bt headset there is) and a SanDisk 1GB MicroSD Card.

Hopefully they’ll make my VX8300 even better with the new ringtones and animations I put on phone.

Until next time.

I’m published! (Enterprise Architecture)

This is the first time I get paid for writing things, other than code that is.

You can see my Dice In The Trenches article on Enterprise Architecture at Dice’s website.

I saw the contest and wrote up the article couple of months ago, it was a contest, and since my article got published, I actually got paid for it.

Anyway, please read it and let me know what you think.

免费电话到50多个国家

我昨天看到一条新闻,有一家公司提供免费电话到50多个国家。不需要通过电脑。
公司网址

你只需要拨打712-858-8883, 是在Ohio的号码。然后用你以前直播的号码(0118621。。。)
我还没试过。我象如果你有手机,周末可以试试。

你也许注意到中国,香港,及台湾的地区号不在那个Pull-down Menu里面。
我刚从这家公司的Customer Service收到以下电邮。

“Country code for Mexico is 52, China 86, Hong Kong 852, Taiwan 886. We have a drop down box on the website for thes lower left hand side.”

下几个星期JY,Lauren和我回去旅行,请为我们的行程祷告。

Roseola Infantum

Lauren got Roseola

As a frequent reader of my blog, you may saw that Lauren has recently recovered from her first cold/fever.

Well, she got sick again no long after.

I guess you experienced parents out there knew this already, but I didn’t know that once baby starts to get sick, they then get sick so often. I actually read up on it, it seems that between the ages of 6 months and 1.5 years, babies get sick quite often because the immunity they get initially from their moms simply run out, and their own immune systems are not mature enough (not enough signatures created for the various diseases to defend against them).

But I digress.

After Lauren recovered from her cold and fever, she was again back to her happy self, giggling all the time. We were having a great time. However, on the night of 09/13, I noticed that she wasn’t eating her yogurt. It was one of her favorite food, and she usually licks the spoon clean. We tried toys, giving her water, and singing to her, none of which worked.

I thought that was odd, and touched her forehead with my hand to make sure she’s not ill. There was a definite temperature difference between my hand and her forehead, and she felt warm overall.

We then measured her oral temperature using one of those pacifier type thermometers. She had a fever of 101.8 F. It was not really a high fever. Add to the complications, I was between jobs, and my wife’s health coverage for Lauren doesn’t start until 10/01. JY and I decided that I should call the doctor’s office just to make sure our daughter’s ok. I called, then after all the questions, was told by the RN that Lauren should be fine, it may be some type of infection. I called the doctor’s office first thing the next morning and scheduled an office visit on the same day.

By the second day, Lauren had a temperature of 101.2 at around noon, and we can sense her getting better.

After her pediatrician examined her, he told us that it’s infection in her throat, and that there is no need for prescription medication. I asked him about other possibilities, especially a disease called Roseola Infantum that I read on the AAP book, and was told that her temperature wasn’t really high enough to be considered for Roseola.

I left with some doubts in my mind, I thought babies do not have a fever from a simple sore throat (but I’m no doctor).

Anyway, one of the symptoms of Roseola is that the patient will develop rashes on her trunk after the fever recedes. That’s exactly what happened to Lauren. She got much better on Friday, then ome Friday night, she started to have rashes on her trunk, then later it spread to parts of her neck and forehead.

We had a birthday party to attend on Saturday, and originally thought of letting Lauren swim in a real pool (with her mom by her side of course) at the birthday boy’s place. But because of her rash, she couldn’t swim, and had to look at the children playing in the pool with envy.

She recovered nicely, actually did not scratch her self at all indicating that the rashes were not irritating, another sign of Roseola.

I didn’t have the energy or desire to call Lauren’s pediatrician back and tell him that he was wrong.

JY and I are both grateful it was Roseola instead of some other types of rashes which are much more severe.

Now that Lauren is back to her normal happy self, we are happy as well.

Please keep her and my family in your prayers.

Here are couple of Lauren’s recent photos.

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I’m changing jobs

I was working as an Enterprise Architect for a large grocery retailer.

Recently, couple of opportunities showed up, and I was able to get an offer from a company in the energy industry that I decided to take. It’s also an EA job, almost identical to what I was working on before. I’m starting on Monday.

The whole process, from seeing the ad on hotjobs.com, to finally getting the offer, took about 2.5 month. It was definitely worth the wait though. Along the way, I had great help from an architect I got to know through one of the conference I attended, as well as a referral from a family friend.

People from my old company asked me why I’m leaving. I actually thought about it before I decided to take on the new job with the new company. The main reason I’m leaving is that I felt that grocery industry will be negatively affected by globalization, and the energy industry will only benefit from it.

The grocery chains have faced increasing pressure from discounters like Walmart SuperCenter and 99 Cents Store. And now with Tesco’s announcement of them moving into the US market, the competition will only increase. The items a grocery store sells are mostly commoditized, you can get the same can of Campbell Soup from any supermarket and it will taste exactly the same. Since most of these grocery items sold inside the grocery stores are produced within the US, the opportunity to outsource/off-shore the supply chain is not an option. Most grocery chains deal with the increasingly competitive market by product innovation (private label, ethnic food etc…), customer service, or operational efficiency (cost reduction, process optimization), which makes it difficult to leverage the flatten global economy.

On the other hand, the energy industry is experiencing tremendous growth. The reason for this growth is not just because crude oil price has been sky-rocketing. It’s also that due to the increased communication and entertainment channels, people from third-world countries are aspiring to share the western style of living, which means more conspicuous consumption of consumer products. Many of these consumer products either requires a great amount of energy to produce or are crude-oil by-products. This demand will only increase, and the energy industry will keep on growing at a fast pace for the foreseeable future.

That was the main reason, to look at the bigger picture and make sure I’m in a growing industry. The other reasons are that the new company provides a competitive compensation package, has a flexible work schedule, and has a good reputation as having the best people.

My manager from my old company was nice enough to organize a team lunch on my behalf, for which I’m very grateful. Looking back to my careers at the grocery company, I also felt a great sense of gratitude. I was hired as a senior developer, then got laid off because they outsourced the whole development team to India. I was Lucky enough to be hired back as a software architect, and shortly after became an enterprise architect because of organizational changes. I learned all my Enterprise Architect skills here, and worked with a lot of smart and driven people. It was the best unintentional career move I made, but I ended up doing what I love and had a lot of fun along the way.

My colleagues from old company have been very supportive, and I know they have what it takes to make it even more successful.

As to my new team at the new company, I got to met quite a few of the team member during the interview. They were very insightful in their questioning, as well as eager to hear what I had to say. I’m there to share my experience, knowledge and skills, at the same time learning about a new industry as well as a new IT organization.

I appreciated the opportunity to continue my career with such a great company, and I’ll report back my leanings once I start.

P.S. There are couple of books that helped me a great deal during my job search as well as finding out what I want to do.
The World Is Flat: A Brief History of the Twenty-first Century is a great book focusing on the influence of globalization on our economy and our daily lives. It was what got me thinking about what industry I wanted to be in.

What Color Is Your Parachute? 2007: A Practical Manual for Job-Hunters and Career-Changers (What Color Is Your Parachute) has been a favorite of mine for quite awhile. It has sections that helped me determine the career I want and what I’m capapable of doing along with a lot of great advice. This is a must-read for anyone looking for a new career.

Lauren’s first cold

It’s been a busy week.

Lauren had her first cold, and unfortunately, both JY and I caught it as well.

It all started on Wednesday 08/23/2006, around the time she was supposed to have her rice cereal, we noticed that there is clear liquid coming out of her mouth, and upon closer examination, we thought it was not water but nasal discharge that indicates the onset of the cold.

I immediately turned to my trusted book Caring for Your Baby and Young Child, Revised Edition: Birth to Age 5. It seems like there is not much we can do as parents other than proving her with enough fluid and plenty of rest. I called her Pediatrician’s office, and that’s what they told me as well.

On the second day, she developed a fever, reaching 102.5 degrees. I called her pediatrician’s office again, and was told to give her Infant Tylenol drops if she becomes uncomfortable and fusses too much.

Her fever lasted couple of days, and it was so sad to see her in pain. JY and I as first time parents have no idea how hard a common cold is to deal with in a baby. It’s indeed a good learning experience for both of us.

My mom, our care taker, as well as my father-in-law all helped out during Lauren’s cold, and they made it much easier for JY and I.

Lauren’s back to normal again, and please keep her in your prayers.

My favorite moments with Lauren

Now that I’ve been a dad for almost 7 months, it’s time for some reflection.

Having a child has been a true learning experience for me. The most difficult part for me was to find out way to connect to my child emotionally when verbal communication is so insufficient.

From the books I’ve read, Lauren as of now does not understand the meaning of the words I say, only the tones I use when saying them. Imaging talking to someone who has no idea what you are saying, and can only infer from the tune of your voice the meaning and intent of the conversation.

The lack in amount of information exchanged between Lauren and me does not mean the quality is any less. Some of my favorite moments occurred where no words are necessary.

I remember early on in Lauren’s life, one of my favorite things to do is to put her to bed. I usually swaddle her with a large blanket and rock her until she’s asleep before putting her on her bed. I can feel her body relax then her breathing becomes rhythmic. It was such a peaceful moment. Lately, I’ve also enjoyed watching her when she’s asleep. She truly sleeps like an angel. Her whole body is relaxed, and she sometimes has a faint smile on her face. I hope she can sense that I’ll protect her with all I have, and that she’ll always find a safe harbor at home that’s giving her that peacefulness later in life.

Another favorite moment was when she was about 5 months old, I was bottle feeding her, and she just stared into my eyes and held my gaze for what seemed like a long time. It’s the first time I thought I made an emotional connection with her, as she understood that I’m the one who she can count on, and that I love her unconditionally.

Yet another favorite moment happened recently, I just came home, and Lauren was playing. The moment she saw me, a big grin broke out on her face, and the room seemed to be lit up. It’s a moment of pure joy for me. She seems to be smiling a lot nowadays, and it seemed to brighten the day of whomever she meets.

I thank God daily for moments like these. Where I gain so much taking care of Lauren. I’m looking forward to more kinds of “moments” as she grows.

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What does an Enterprise Architect do?

My official job title is Enterprise Architect. People may not be familiar with the concept of Enterprise Architecture or wonder what an Enterprise Architect does. I recently wrote an article for Dice In The Trenches.

I just learned that Dice will publish my article, and I’m removing it from my blog and will update with a link to the Dice site once it’s published.

Thanks.